Oh how I wish in my early years as a believer I had read something like this. I will admit, hard as it is, if I could take what I know back 26 years, I would NOT have married the man I did on 8/13/88. I don’t regret it, but I know now that he was not the believer and leader I thought he was and I’ll carry the mental, spiritual and emotional scars for the rest of my life.
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Marti Gardner 
So sad how many young girls equate Hurt – with love. I actually had one girl, after her divorce, say to me, “I was always in so much pain…I thought only that kind of hurt, could be love.” What a twisted picture the world paints. I always say to young girls in my class: Do Not marry Potential! He doesn’t have to be perfect; but he does have to perfect For You.
I am sure if I had married in my 20s, I probably would have made big mistake too. So glad I waited and was not so impatient about it.